Simple strategies to raise generous kids

It is only natural for children to be self-engrossed and a little selfish too. During the initial years of their lives, they focus on only what they want or need, and making sure that they get everything they ask for is crucial. Getting their needs met is part of children's early development. But as they grow up, it is necessary for you to help them look outside of themselves and shift the focus on what others need. As parents, encourage them to be responsive to the necessities of people around them. Studies suggest that apart from building strong relationships, generosity and kindness also rev up the emotional well-being of kids. Help them develop these attributes through encouragement and example. 

Model a positive attitude 
Children always look up to their parents for guidance, support, and advice. Setting standards of positivity and kindness at home is the first step in raising kids who are morally and emotionally righteous. Reflect aspects of charity and the joy it brings. This will encourage your kids to follow the same. Start by becoming more intentional and make it an everyday affair to exhibit acts of goodwill. 

Create opportunities for expression 
It is important for parents to set the path towards expressing kindness by allowing their kids to participate in sharing and lending activities. It could be as small as lending old books, clothes, and other useful supplies to domestic help at home or needy children in the locality. This will give your child the chance to experience the joy of giving, making them want to do it more often.  

Make the process engaging 
Charity should feel like an effortless endeavour and not something that is compensated with rewards. The only reward of giving is to derive joy out of it. Giving should not be regarded as a sacrifice. Rather, it should be about meeting someone’s needs with your plenitude of thought.  

Motivate your child to be empathetic 
Generosity starts with placing oneself in others' shoes. As parents, you can inculcate empathy in your kids by helping them imagine how others feel. This can be through everyday occurrences. For example, you can ask your child, "How do you think your brother felt when you took away his chocolate?" Help your child read others. This will go a long way in helping him imbibe empathy and practicing generosity. 

Always praise the giving impulse 
Positive affirmations have a way of going a long way in nurturing your child’s mindset. When you see your child being generous and rooted, make sure to point it out to him in an appreciative manner. Start by encouraging good behaviour and the idea of valuing the presence of others around them.